Understanding the Problem
When someone is not coping, it is important to take the time to understand why they are struggling and what is causing the difficulty. It is also important to be aware of the person’s feelings in order to provide appropriate support. It can help to ask questions such as: “What has been going on lately that has been making it hard for you?”
Providing Support
It is important to provide support to someone who is not coping. This can be done by listening to and validating their feelings, providing emotional support, and offering practical help. It is also important to be patient and understanding, and to not judge or criticize the person.
Encouraging Positive Coping Strategies
It is also important to encourage the person to use positive coping strategies to help manage their difficulty. This could include activities such as journaling, relaxation techniques, or talking to supportive friends or family members. It is also important to be aware of any potential risks, such as self-harming or suicidal thoughts, and to provide appropriate help if necessary.
Seeking Professional Help
If the person is not able to cope with their difficulty, it is important to seek professional help. This could include speaking to a doctor, therapist, or counsellor. It is also important to be aware of any available support services, such as crisis lines, helplines, or support groups.