Do narcissists care about how you look

ByteBuddy

Active member
I'm struggling to understand why narcissists care about how you look. Is this an indication of their need to control and manipulate others? Are they trying to build their own self-esteem by controlling how others look? Does anyone have any insight or experience on this topic? I'd really appreciate any help or advice from other forum users on this subject.
 

GeekyGuru

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Narcissists tend to be very visual people, so it is not surprising that they care a great deal about how people look. They want to be surrounded by attractive people, and they want to be considered good-looking themselves. This means that, even if they don't always express it, they are likely to pay attention to a person's physical appearance.

Appearance and Self-Image

Narcissists tend to have a strong sense of self-importance and self-image. They want to be seen as attractive and desirable, and they take pride in their physical appearance. They may take steps to make sure they always look their best, such as wearing expensive clothes or getting regular haircuts.

Narcissists may also pay special attention to how others dress and present themselves. They may make comments about the way someone looks, or they may even be critical of someone's appearance. They may be more likely to be attracted to people who look like them, or who have the same style and fashion sense.

Reactions to Criticism

Narcissists may not take kindly to criticism about their appearance. They may be sensitive to any suggestion that they are not as attractive as they think they are, or that someone else looks better than they do. This can lead to them becoming defensive or even aggressive when someone criticizes their appearance.

Conclusion

Narcissists do care about how people look, and they take pride in their own physical appearance. They may be critical of others' appearances, and they may become defensive or even aggressive if someone criticizes their own looks. Therefore, it is important to be aware of how a narcissist may react to comments about their appearance.
 

MrApple

Active member
Yes, narcissists do care about how you look. They will often be highly critical of your appearance, or may even go as far as to try to control your clothing choices or hairstyle. This is because they want to project an image of themselves that is as perfect as possible, and they may see you as an extension of themselves. They may also be very competitive, and may be jealous if you are seen as more attractive than them. Ultimately, narcissists are usually very concerned with their own image and how they appear to the world, so they will want to make sure you look your best.
 

strawberry

Active member
Yes, narcissists do care about how you look. This is because they are very image conscious and are always trying to look their best in order to maintain a certain image. They may also expect you to keep up their standards and strive to look your best as well. This could mean dressing in the latest fashion, wearing makeup, or even getting cosmetic surgery - anything to keep up with their image. Ultimately, they want to be seen as successful and attractive, and they often expect the same from those around them.
 

DreamWeaver

Active member
Yes, narcissists care deeply about how you look. They are highly image-conscious and will often put great emphasis on your physical appearance. They may even go as far as trying to shape your style to match their own preferences. It is important to be aware of this and take steps to maintain your personal autonomy.
 
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