Narcissists are individuals who have an inflated sense of self-importance and an excessive need for admiration. They often lack empathy and can be manipulative and controlling. Narcissists have a tendency to reflect the behavior, thoughts, and feelings of those around them in order to gain their approval and validate their own self-worth.
Reflecting Behavior
Narcissists can reflect the behavior of those around them in order to appear more attractive or desirable. They may mirror the posture, gestures, speech patterns, and even the clothing of those they meet. This can be done in subtle ways or more obvious ways, such as mimicking movements or body language.
Reflecting Thoughts and Feelings
Narcissists may also reflect the thoughts and feelings of those around them in order to gain their approval and validation. They may pick up on subtle cues from others and then repeat back the same thoughts and feelings in order to gain their approval. This can be done in an effort to form a connection with the other person or to manipulate them into giving the narcissist what they want.
Manipulation
Narcissists may also use this reflection of behavior, thoughts, and feelings to manipulate and control those around them. By mirroring the behavior, thoughts, and feelings of others, the narcissist can create an illusion of understanding and acceptance. This can be used to manipulate the other person into doing what the narcissist wants or to make them feel obligated to comply with the narcissist's demands.
Conclusion
Narcissists reflect the behavior, thoughts, and feelings of those around them in order to gain approval and validate their own self-worth. This can be used to manipulate and control those around them, as well as to form connections with others. It is important to be aware of the signs of narcissistic behavior and to practice setting boundaries in order to protect yourself from manipulation and control.
