The most damaging personality disorder is dependent personality disorder (DPD). People with this disorder have a strong need to be taken care of and to be dependent on others. They fear abandonment and often become overly clingy and desperate for approval. They have difficulty making decisions and are often unable to take responsibility for their actions or choices.
Signs and Symptoms of Dependent Personality Disorder
People with dependent personality disorder often show the following signs and symptoms:
• Extreme fear of abandonment
• Difficulty making independent decisions
• Difficulty expressing opinions or disagreement
• Low self-esteem and feelings of worthlessness
• Low assertiveness
• Need for constant reassurance and approval
• Difficulty starting or completing tasks
• Avoidance of responsibility or taking initiative
• Difficulty disagreeing with others
• Difficulty saying "no" to others
• Submissive and clinging behavior
• Difficulty with conflict
• Inability to be alone
Effects of Dependent Personality Disorder
Dependent personality disorder can have a significant impact on a person’s life. People with this disorder may be unable to function independently and may be at risk of physical, emotional, and financial exploitation by others. They may also be prone to developing anxiety and depression.
Dependent personality disorder can also affect relationships and social interactions. People with this disorder may be overly dependent on their partners or friends, or avoid social situations altogether. They may also have difficulty making and maintaining relationships due to their need for approval and fear of abandonment.
Treatment for Dependent Personality Disorder
The goals of treatment for dependent personality disorder are to reduce symptoms, increase self-confidence and independence, and improve functioning in relationships and daily life. Treatment usually includes psychotherapy, such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and medications such as antidepressants.
Psychotherapy can help people with dependent personality disorder learn to make decisions independently, express opinions and feelings, and take responsibility for their actions. It can also help them develop healthier relationships and better coping skills.
Medication can help reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression associated with the disorder. However, medication should only be used in conjunction with psychotherapy, as it is not a cure for dependent personality disorder.
