Obsessive love disorder (OLD) is a psychological condition that involves an obsessive fixation on another person, typically a celebrity. It is a form of intrusive thinking, which can lead to significant emotional distress and interfere with day-to-day functioning. OLD is characterized by intrusive, obsessive thoughts and feelings of being in love with a particular celebrity, combined with a fear of rejection or of losing the relationship.
What Causes OLD?
There is no single known cause of OLD. However, research suggests that certain psychological and social factors may be linked to the development of this disorder. These factors can include a history of unmet needs, low self-esteem, difficulty forming relationships, and a lack of positive role models. In addition, OLD may be triggered by a celebrity’s fame and their perceived perfection, which can make them appear more attractive and desirable than real-life people.
Signs and Symptoms of OLD
The signs and symptoms of OLD vary, but typically include intense feelings of love and longing for a celebrity, intrusive thoughts about them, an all-consuming preoccupation with them, and an inability to focus on other aspects of life. People with OLD may also experience fear of rejection or abandonment, as well as feelings of envy towards other people who have a relationship with the celebrity.
Treatment for OLD
Treatment for OLD typically involves a combination of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and medication. The goal of treatment is to help the person manage their intrusive thoughts and feelings, and to help them develop healthier relationships and coping skills. In some cases, medication may be prescribed to reduce intrusive thoughts and feelings of anxiety. It is important to note that treatment is not a cure for OLD, but rather a way to manage symptoms.