Narcissists view others as objects to be used for their own benefit. They have a tendency to see people as either perfect and idealized, or as inferior and undeserving. Narcissists are prone to making snap judgments about people based on their own needs and desires. They may idealize someone when they need something from them, and then quickly devalue them once they have obtained the desired benefit. Narcissists often have a hard time recognizing the feelings and needs of others, as they are primarily focused on their own.
The Narcissistic View of Others
Narcissists tend to view others in terms of how useful they are to them, and how they can be manipulated to benefit the narcissist. They are often attracted to individuals who make them feel superior, and they may idealize those who show admiration for them. Narcissists may also devalue and belittle those who do not meet their expectations.
Narcissists can be manipulative and exploitative in their relationships with others. They can be controlling and demanding, expecting others to meet their needs without any regard for the feelings of the other person.
The Narcissistic View of Self
Narcissists tend to have a very high opinion of themselves. They often feel superior to others and have a strong sense of entitlement. They may brag about their accomplishments and exaggerate their talents. Narcissists may also be hypersensitive to criticism, feeling threatened by any suggestion that they are not perfect.
The Impact of Narcissism on Relationships
Narcissism can have a negative impact on relationships. Narcissists may be unable to form meaningful connections with others, as they tend to be overly focused on themselves. They may also be unwilling to recognize the needs and feelings of those around them, leading to feelings of resentment and frustration.
Narcissism can also make it difficult for narcissists to maintain healthy relationships. Their lack of empathy and inability to recognize the needs of others can make it difficult for them to maintain trust and intimacy. Narcissists may also be unwilling to accept responsibility for their actions, making it difficult to resolve conflicts.
Overall, narcissists view others as objects to be used for their own benefit. They may idealize people when they need something from them, and then quickly devalue them once they have obtained the desired benefit. They may also be manipulative and exploitative in their relationships, expecting others to meet their needs without any regard for the feelings of the other person.
