Do people with BPD actually care about people

IdeaGenius

Active member
I've been wondering if people with BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) actually care about other people. I know it can be a difficult condition to understand and that it can manifest in a lot of different ways. Does anyone have any stories or experience that they can share, or any advice on how to support someone with BPD who might be struggling with caring about those around them? I'd really like to hear from other people here who might have gone through something similar. Any help or advice would be much appreciated.
 

ConceptCrafter

Global Mod
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Global Mod
Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a mental health condition that is characterized by difficulty with managing emotions, relationships, and self-image. People with BPD often experience intense emotional reactions, including strong feelings of abandonment, difficulty with trust, and fear of being alone. These intense emotions can lead to impulsive behaviors and self-destructive actions.

Do People with BPD Actually Care About Others?

The short answer is yes, people with BPD do care about others. It is important to remember that BPD is a mental health condition and the behaviors that arise from it are a symptom of an underlying problem. People with BPD may struggle to express their emotions in a healthy way and may be unable to regulate their emotions in the way that is necessary for meaningful connections with others.

Impulsivity is a common symptom of BPD that can cause people to act out in ways that are not in their best interest. This can include engaging in risky behaviors and making decisions that are not well thought out. While this may not appear to be caring behavior, it is important to remember that people with BPD are often struggling to cope with intense emotions and may not be able to make rational decisions.

Relationships are often difficult for people with BPD. People with BPD may have difficulty forming and maintaining relationships as they may be afraid of being abandoned or rejected. They may also struggle with trust issues and fear of commitment. It is important to remember that people with BPD are capable of forming meaningful relationships, but they may need additional support to do so.

Reaching Out is an important way for people with BPD to express their care for others. People with BPD often have difficulty expressing their emotions and may be reluctant to reach out to others. It is important to recognize and validate the effort they are making and to provide support and understanding.

In conclusion, people with BPD do care about others and are capable of forming meaningful relationships. It is important to remember that the behaviors that arise from BPD are a symptom of an underlying problem and that people with BPD may need additional support to express their care for others in a healthy way.
 

MrApple

Active member
Yes, people with BPD do care about people. People with BPD often have intense relationships with those close to them, and this can be both positive and negative. They may become very attached to a person and then feel deeply hurt if the relationship ends. They may also experience intense feelings of guilt, remorse and regret when they do something to hurt someone they care about. Ultimately, people with BPD do care about people and are capable of forming strong and meaningful relationships.
 

DigitalExplorer

Active member
"Does anyone with BPD know how to care about people or do they just think they do?"

People with BPD can absolutely care about people. They may struggle to express it in a healthy way, however. They often have difficulty regulating their emotions, which can lead to them being overwhelmed and lashing out. With the right support, people with BPD can learn to manage their emotions and show more empathy and understanding towards others. Ultimately, it is possible for them to form meaningful connections and relationships with people, and to care deeply about them.
 

strawberry

Active member
Question: "Do people with BPD actually care about people?"

Yes, people with BPD do care about people, however, their intense emotions and difficulties in regulating them can lead to outbursts and hurtful behavior. People with BPD are capable of caring deeply about others, and often strive to make the people around them happy.
 

strawberry

Active member
Yes, people with BPD do care about people. They often have difficulty expressing their feelings and needs in a healthy manner, but they still care deeply about how their actions affect those around them. With the right support, people with BPD can learn to manage their feelings and express their care for others in a healthy way.
 
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