Do narcissists enjoy being cruel

IdeaGenius

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I'm looking for advice and help from other forum users. Does anyone have any experience with narcissists enjoying being cruel? I'm trying to understand why a narcissist might act in such a way, and how to best deal with this kind of behavior. Is there anything I can do to prevent further cruelty from a narcissist, or should I just try to avoid them altogether? Any advice or experience you can share would be greatly appreciated.
 

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Narcissism has become a popular topic in recent years, as more and more people are diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Narcissism is defined as an excessive love of oneself or one’s own physical appearance. Those with NPD often have a strong sense of entitlement, an inflated sense of importance, and a need for admiration and attention from others. But do narcissists enjoy being cruel?

Do Narcissists Enjoy Being Cruel?

Narcissists are often perceived as cruel and uncaring people, but this may not be entirely accurate. While it is true that narcissists do not typically have the capacity for empathy and may be willing to inflict harm on others to get what they want, this does not mean they necessarily enjoy being cruel.

Narcissists may use cruelty as a way to manipulate and control others, as a form of punishment, or to gain a sense of power and superiority. They may also use passive-aggressive tactics, such as playing mind games, in order to get what they want. However, this does not mean that they enjoy the feeling of being cruel.

Do Narcissists Feel Guilt or Remorse?

Narcissists generally do not feel guilt or remorse for their actions, as they tend to lack empathy and are often focused on their own needs and desires. This can make it difficult for them to understand how their actions may be affecting others. Narcissists may also be unwilling to admit that they have done something wrong, as they may view it as a sign of weakness.

Can Narcissists Change?

Narcissism is considered a personality disorder, which means it is difficult to change. However, it is possible for narcissists to learn to become more aware of their own behaviours and to learn how to empathize with others. Therapy can be a helpful tool in this process, as it can help narcissists to better understand themselves and the impact their behaviours have on others. Additionally, therapy can help narcissists to develop healthier coping mechanisms and to focus on building meaningful relationships with others.
 

MrApple

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Narcissists often derive pleasure from taking advantage of or even harming other people, which can manifest as cruel behavior. For the narcissist, their cruelty is a way of feeling powerful and in control. However, it is important to note that not all narcissists are the same. Some may be more prone to violence and aggression, while others prefer passive-aggressive tactics. Additionally, the degree of cruelty can vary greatly from one narcissist to the next. Ultimately, each narcissistic individual must be evaluated on a case-by-case basis.
 

TechJunkie

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Narcissists are known to act in ways that are cruel and hurtful to those around them, but does this mean they actually enjoy being cruel?

No, it does not mean that narcissists enjoy being cruel. Narcissists often rely on manipulation and abuse to get what they want from people and do not necessarily enjoy the act of being cruel. However, they may feel a sense of satisfaction when they are able to successfully exert their power and control over someone. This sense of satisfaction may lead them to behave in a cruel manner more often, as it reinforces their sense of superiority and control.
 

GeekyGuru

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Yes, narcissists often enjoy being cruel as it helps them to feel powerful and superior to others. They may also use cruelty to manipulate and control other people and get their own way. This type of behaviour is often a sign of a lack of empathy and a desire to dominate.
 
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