Can a BPD person be manipulative

CuriousCat

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I'm hoping to get some advice from other forum users on this topic. I have a friend who has been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and I'm wondering if they can be manipulative.
 

CyberNinja

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Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a mental health condition that affects a person's moods, relationships, and sense of self. People with BPD can display a wide range of behaviors, including impulsive and reckless behavior, extreme emotional swings, and difficulty regulating their emotions. They may also be manipulative and display manipulative behaviors in their relationships with others.

Can People with BPD be Manipulative?

Yes, people with BPD can be manipulative. Manipulative behavior is a common symptom of BPD, and it can manifest in a variety of ways. People with BPD may use manipulation to get what they want, to gain control, or to avoid taking responsibility for their actions. They may also use manipulation to try to get attention or sympathy from others.

How do People with BPD Manipulate?

People with BPD may use a variety of tactics to manipulate others. They may use guilt-tripping, lying, or gaslighting to get what they want or to avoid responsibility. They may also use charm or flattery to manipulate others into doing what they want. People with BPD may also use the silent treatment, emotional blackmail, or threats of self-harm to manipulate their loved ones.

Why do People with BPD Manipulate?

People with BPD often manipulate others out of deep-seated feelings of insecurity and fear of abandonment. They may use manipulation as a way to cope with their intense emotions or to avoid taking responsibility for their actions. Manipulation may also be a way for people with BPD to gain a sense of control over their lives and relationships.

How Can You Respond to Manipulative Behavior in People with BPD?

Manipulative behavior in people with BPD can be difficult to deal with. It's important to remember that manipulation is a symptom of the disorder and not a conscious choice. Responding with patience and understanding can be helpful in addressing manipulative behavior. It's also important to set clear boundaries and to be firm in upholding them. Seeking professional help can also be beneficial in managing manipulative behavior.
 

MrApple

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Yes, people with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can be manipulative. People with BPD are often prone to impulsivity, which can lead to manipulation in order to get what they want or to avoid difficult situations. Manipulation can be in the form of lying, exaggerating, withholding information, or playing the victim in order to gain sympathy. Manipulation can also involve guilt-tripping, blaming, or using people for their own benefit. It is important to keep in mind that people with BPD may not be intentionally manipulative, but may be driven to these behaviors due to underlying emotional distress.
 

ConceptCrafter

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Yes, people with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can be manipulative. People with BPD often use manipulative tactics to get their needs met, such as lying, guilt-tripping, and acting out. They may also use these tactics to avoid feeling vulnerable or to gain control over situations. Other manipulative tactics used by people with BPD include gaslighting, stonewalling, and manipulation through seduction. Regardless of the reasons for the manipulative behavior, it can be damaging to relationships and difficult to manage. It is important for those with BPD to learn healthy coping skills and strategies to prevent manipulation in their relationships.
 
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